Relationships are not easy, they require work, honesty, communication, love, and commitment from both parties. But, some are incapable of this, and you don't need to be blindsided.
If you are currently considering a relationship with David W. Buck, proceed with caution, if this is the case.
Each of us, at one time or another, has been contacted by women most recently taken advantage by him. We share our experiences in hopes that you may have a better understanding of what we have all personally lived through, so that you may decide for yourself, what steps to take next or at the very least, for you to understand that these behaviors are exhibited with every woman that he encounters, and pursues.
We are 100% certain, if you allow yourself, you will quickly fall hard for him. He is charming and will make you feel like you are his world. And, if you have children, he will make them feel the same. After a very short time, he will ask you to live with him and to marry him, although we have never met a man more afraid to exclusively commit to anyone in his life. As exciting as the moments you have together will be, the opposite will be 10X that more painful when the cheating, lies, deceit, mind games, and gaslighting begin.
If you are currently being pursued by him, be aware as he is more than likely already in another "committed" relationship. If he gets caught, he always has a plethora of excuses lined up in his back pocket to use. He is a smooth talker that can charm his way out of any situation. There is no right or wrong with him -- always a gray area.
In every situation we are aware of, he will secretly pursue a secondary relationship. When you do discover he has made a blunder in your relationship, fair warning, you will find yourself backtracking your steps trying to figure out when, how, and why your relationship somehow coincided with another. These are not answers you will get from him. At best, he will tell you that it is all in your head or that someone else is trying to mess with him. He will tell you the women who contact him are psycho, crazy, and just stalking him. This self-serving manipulation of covering his tracks will continue.
It's the newness of a relationship or the rekindling of an old one that he is addicted to and excites him. Once that diminishes or fades at all, he exits emotionally and is already searching for the next thrill (you may not be aware of this though). It is in his nature to cut off and block any feelings, after a certain point, while in a relationship, as a means of feeling in control and emotionally protected. He is not capable of loving anyone through the difficult times...times where life just happens. He will disappear when life gets challenging. Instead of continuing the relationship or standing by the person he proclaims to love, he distances himself, and goes on the prowl.
Dave cannot stand to be alone and will make sure that he has someone new falling in love with him before he exits the current relationship he ruined with his lies, deceit, emotional abuse, and cheating.
If you are in the fallback category with him, just remember that rekindling phone call may come down the road when he finds some purpose for you to be in his life again. Choose wisely. You may always feel that you truly love him, but do you really want to be in a relationship where you know he will not stick around, will always look for a reason to leave, and where you are always wondering who else is occupying his time and bed? We hope that we as women can remember our worth and know that no one should take advantage of us or let them dictate or happiness -- we are worth way more than that!
With all of this in mind, do yourself a favor and take control of what you will allow yourself to be subjected to. Identify the warning signs and do not let any man easily dismiss the red flags. But most importantly, know that there are good men out there who are capable of a healthy relationship, as David may never be.
Unfortunately, we all share the above-mentioned experiences. If you have dated him or are considering to date him (or someone like this), be careful. No matter how amazing, strong, sexy, independent, and successful you are, you will, in fact, be burned if you do not pay attention to the fire!
*Personal dating experiences from women who have been blindsided by David Buck of Northern Utah. Derived from a post written by 3 other women: http://dakbak.blogspot.com/2015/01/david-w-buck.html
